2,303 prospective corps members begin orientation course in FCT

No fewer than 2,303 graduates from various tertiary institutions within and outside the country, on Wednesday, commenced orientation course for the mandatory one year national youth service in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT). Mr Omotayo Adewoye, the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), FCT Coordinator, said this after the Director-General of the scheme, Brig.-Gen. Sule Kazaure, inspected facilities at the Permanent Orientation Camp in Kubwa, Abuja.

Adewoye said that the figure may likely increase to 2,500 before the end of the three weeks orientation exercise as the scheme was expecting more prospective corps members to register and partake in the service year. The coordinator, who lauded the computerised system of registering corps members, said the system had so far enabled the scheme eliminate fake corps members and individuals who send others to serve on their behalf. “The computerised system of registration is faster, less stressful and highly result oriented. “Most of the registration process has already been done by the corps members what they only need to do now in camp is for us to authenticate their registration. “We have all the details we need in our system so when they present their biometric capture and finger print the details of their registration shows allowing us to confirm. “Anyone who is not the owner of the finger print used during registration is sent out. “This has enabled us to fish out fake corps members that is those who have not graduated and want to fraudulently come into the scheme or those who register but send other people to come and serve on their behalf,” Adewoye said. He said that the hostels, toilets and bathrooms were ready and 24-hour water supply made available to ensure that corps members were comfortable during the orientation course.
 Adewoye said that although the orientation camp had been disconnected from the power supply, the Federal Capital Territory Administration (FCTA) had promised to address the problem within a week.                                                                                                                                                                According to the coordinator, the corps had created another alternative source of power which is the generator and since corps members came in we have made power supply available to them. He urged the incoming corps members to obey the rules and regulations of the NYSC in order to ensure a successful service year. Adewoye said that the scheme would ensure it played the parental role it was mandated to play for the next one year, but urged corps members to be obedient and participate in all activities. He said “this is meant to groom and train them as leaders of tomorrow’’. Besides, he enjoined the corps members to join the NYSC Skill Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development Programme (SAED), which was aimed to arming them with necessary skills needed to be self-employed. “They can receive this skill training and in turn train others around them especially the less privileged who cannot go to school or have the avenue to receive any skill training,” the coordinator said. Miss Kwila Sonita, one of the newly registered corps members, lauded the registration process, saying it is organised, stress free and less tedious. Sonita, a graduate of Federal University of Technology (FUT), Minna, Niger state, said that the registration was done in accordance with corps members geopolitical zones which made the process better organised. She said that she hoped to impact positively on the lives of others during the service year. “I have a creative mind and I want to showcase that creativity during the service year. I am an entrepreneur; I am into liquid soap production and I wish to take this product everywhere to be used by everyone,” Sonita said. Another newly registered corps member, Mr Olusegun Akerele, who was also a graduate of FUT, Minna, said the registration and clearance process for corps members was not a stressful one. Akerele said that during the service year he hoped to gather the required knowledge which would help him be independent in the future. However, he urged the management of the scheme to improve on service delivery to corps members to make their one year mandatory national service fruitful. 
        The director-general of the scheme urged corps members to be disciplined, hardworking and law abiding during the service year. The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Kazaure inspected the hostels, bakery, table water factory and the water treatment plant at the camp. He also inspected the ongoing registration process of prospective corps members. Corps members duly registered will serve under the 2016 Batch ‘A’ stream one. (NAN)

For couples only: 11 words you should never use during an argument

Using the wrong words during an argument with your partner could put an end to your relationship

Using the wrong words during an argument with your partner could put an end to your relationship

Arguments between couples is normal as long as they are kept short and healthy. Letting anger escalate could could do more harm than good for you and your relationship. Using the wrong words during an argument with your partner could put an end to your relationship.

You can never take back harsh words said to your partner in the heat of an argument, but you can always caution yourself so you don't make such mistakes

Compiled by Women's Daily Mag, here are some words that should never be uttered in an argument:

1. You are such...an idiot, a moron, a mama’s boy: Actually, we’re talking about any offensive word there is. Your argument will be childish and immature if you use these kind of words. Don’t you ever forget that words have the power to hurt. Restrain yourself of using offensive words and talk to him by his name. Keep your dignity and good manners, even in a love war.
2. Why can't you be more like...Ana’s boyfriend? Your brother?: Comparing you partner with someone else may look like a good method for motivating him but these kind of comparison can make your argument even worse. So, lock those thoughts in your head. Just so you get it better, you think – Ana has lost some weight.If she can do it, I can do it, but if your partner says to you – Why can’t you lose some weight as Ana did?- you might find this offensive.
3. I want to break up: You may think that by saying this you”ll give a more serious tone to your argument and you will show that you can’t be taken for granted, but you might be facing with an agreement from your partner. If you really want to put an end of your relationship, wait for a calmer moment.
4. I hate you: If you let your argument escalate to this, the damage might be irreversible. This is one of those statements that you’ll wish to go back in time and stop yourself from saying this. Although said during a heated argument, these words can stick between you for a long time. So the rule is simple, NEVER say I hate you during an argument.
5. I'm not angry: You refuse to communicate and instead of having a healthy discussion, you turn your head to the side and claim that you’re not angry. Men know the meaning of “fine” so why expect that he’ll believe in you lie? Sit with him and tell him why you are angry, you’ll feel much better. If you weren’t angry, there wouldn’t’ be an argument in the first place.
6. I told you so: Oh, those sweet words that confirm your female intuition. They seem so powerful for you and so devastating for your partner. Telling him I told you so is like pouring gas in a fire. What good will come from your ego if the result is a horrible argument and not speaking for days?
7. You weren't like this before: People change and that’s normal. Change is a part of growing up and maturing physically and mentally. If your partner has changed a lot, there is a place and time and a different approach to talk about that. Bringing up this during your argument will take away the attention from the real issue and point out to an issue that doesn’t have anything to do with the argument.
8. It's all your fault: It takes two to tango and it takes two to argue. Even though you know that it’s his fault, you should point it out that much during your argument. Ask yourself this – What are you doing with this man who does everything wrong? Sure you don’ mean it, so don’t bring it up in an argument.
9. You're just like your mother/father: You must NEVER talk about his parents  during your argument. You’re offending your partner and his parents at the same time and that can be pretty painful. Anyway, who wants to hear bad words about his parents? We already said that comparing is bad, but comparing using his parents is the worst and that doesn’t lead to anything good.
10. My friends warned me: All men have nightmares from the intimate girl talks. They are aware that your friend’s opinion is very important, but sometimes that opinion can manage your relationship. You can’t tell your partner your friend’s opinion during the argument. It’s already enough that you two are having an argument, why drag your friends in it?
11. We're not doing that tonight: The holy Grail of women’s threats. There isn’t a more degrading statement during an argument. While making your partner feel bad, you restrain yourself from pleasure too. Making love after an argument is the best thing ever!

Bridal tips: 7 smart ways to help reduce wedding costs for your bridesmaids and friends

It would be a smart move to step back and see how you can minimise costs for your bridesmaids and friends who would be part of the team organising your wedding

From the dresses, to travel, transportation, gifts and favors, your wedding can really take a tow on your bridesmaids in terms of cost. Especially when they don't have much to throw around.

It would be a smart move to step back and see how you can minimise costs for your bridesmaids and friends who would be part of the team organising your wedding.

In the end, they would be grateful to you for your thoughtfulness and strengthen your bond of friendship.
Laura Marie Meyers of PopSugar lists a few ways brides can help save costs for their friends and bridesmaids:

1.      Pick a Color, Not a Dress: The bridesmaid dress can be a major expense, and it's tough to pick one option that fits everyone's financial expectations. A solution: choose a color — a general "purple" — or multiple shades, as on a paint swatch, then let each pal find a dress that suits both her style and her budget. If you're worried that the range of hues won't work together, ask each friend to send you photos before they buy.

2.      Make the Bachelorette Party an Intimate Affair: When your bridesmaids ask for your guest list requests, you may be tempted to invite anyone and everyone to your bachelorette party — but remember that more people means more favors, more decorations, more knickknacks. The bigger the party, the greater the expenses, so be considerate of your bridesmaids' budgets and opt for a smaller, more intimate group of friends.

3.      Be Open Toward Shoe Options: Rather than selecting a specific brand and design, choose a general type of shoe — a nude wedge, for instance — or, again, a color. This gives the girls a bit more control as to how much they spend, and they may even own a pair that matches your request.

4.      Choose Accessories as Your Gift: Steer clear of saying that every girl must wear a certain type of jewelry. Instead, choose a simple piece as the gift for your bridesmaids: a bracelet, a necklace, or a simple pair of earrings. Not only will they appreciate the gesture, but the jewelry will also serve as a fun reminder of your big day.

5.      Choose a Budget-Friendly Bachelorette Party Location: To keep costs as low as possible, skip the jet-setting and stick to a nearby location. Choose a fun spot in your city or a nearby destination (road trip!) so that your friends aren't forced to pay for airfare on top of everything else. If you do opt for a place that requires flying, be sure to make plans early so that the girls can find the lowest possible pricing.                                                                                                                                   

6.      Keep It Short and Sweet: Sure, you want to make the party last as long as possible, but an extra long weekend can lead to extra high costs. Make it a one-night affair, or if you do choose to stay somewhere for several nights, plan to have just one "all-out" night and a couple more casual, low-key evenings. Try an at-home barbecue, a nostalgic sleepover, or your own DIY version of a wine tasting to keep the festivities budget-friendly.                                                                                                 

7.      Request Time, Not Gifts: If you're trying to give the girls' wallets a break, reach out and suggest that they skip the gifts. Instead, coordinate a craft day where the group can get together to help you with some DIY wedding details: stuffing invitations, putting together decorations, filling favor bags, etc. Let your bridesmaids know that their time and support is more valuable than anything else — and that by helping with the little things, they will make your big day all the more special (and stress-free). It's a win-win situation: they save money and you get a bit of extra help!

Linda Ikeji allegedly reports Wizkid to Police

 TheNetNg,  reports that singer who threatened to send his underage cousin to beat up the blogger could spend up to seven years in jail if found guilty.

News reaching us today, April 15, 2016 has it that Linda Ikeji has filed a petition to the Lagos Police, alleging a threat to her life.

  TheNetNg,  reports that Wizkid who threatened to send his underage cousin to beat up the blogger could spend up to seven years in jail if found guilty.

According to Multiple sources say Linda Ikeji got the Police to invite Wizkid for a chat but he failed to show up.

Section 323 of the criminal code states that ‘Any person who, knowing the contents thereof directly or indirectly causes any person to receive any writing threatening to kill any person is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for 7 years."

The drama started the day before when Linda Ikeji posted a story about Wizkid being served with a quit notice at his Lekki Phase 1 residence.

Wizkid who is a rebellious pop star grabbed his phone the next day and blasted Linda Ikeji in the comment section of her latest picture. The ‘Ojuelegba’ singer went hard on her and even said something unsavoury about her lady parts and this is not the first time Wizkid is facing the possibility of arrest and prosecution for alleged assault.

Today's Inspiration: Changes to Make in Your 20s that Your 30s Self Will Thank You For

When we are in our 20s, everything seems possible. These years exist for making mistakes, learning from them, and bridging yourself into a fully-adult life. Your 20s are also a time to develop good habits (and resist bad ones) until your older self cements them into place.
Do these things, and you’ll be a happier, healthier person when 30 rolls around:

1. Don’t be afraid to pursue your dreams.

“Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect” – Unknown

There is no better time for finding and focusing on your passions than in your 20s. The way you channel your efforts now will influence how you spend the rest of your life.
You will probably never have as much motivation and vital energy to succeed as when you are young. With few obligations yet (such as mortgages or families) to slow you down, there’s no reason not to pursue your dreams.
Don’t let your own mind limit you.

2. Spend your time wisely.

“What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.” ­– Unknown

When we are in our early 20s, we feel like we have an unlimited amount of time ahead of us. In fact, time is passing fast. Remember – the only thing you can never buy back is your youth. Don’t waste your time on worthless activities or by following career paths you don’t enjoy.
Value your time. What you do in your 20s—the education you pursue, the skills you acquire, and the contacts you make—are the best capital you could even gain for your future.

3. Exercise and eat well.

“Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend.“ – Lao Tzu

Your body will “send you a bill” for the trash foods you eat, the fitness classes you skip, your long nights of partying, and your long days of stressful work. Treat your body as your biggest investment and take care of it.
Experiment with many physical activities and discover your favorites; you’re more likely to maintain an exercise habit if you enjoy your workouts.
Don’t try to save money by neglecting your health. Nourish yourself with fresh and healthy foods and do whatever you must to keep a regular workout schedule. It’s way better to spend fifty bucks on a quality gym membership than drinks on Friday night.

4. Stop smoking.

“Smoking isn’t sexy.“ – Wingman Magazine

There is no rational reason to smoke; quit as soon as you can. Researchers have shown that smoking is harmful at any age. However, if you stop smoking before age 35, you can still live a long life and enjoy a better quality of life in middle age.

5. Develop good sleeping patterns.

“The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.“ – Sydney J. Harris

Your 20s body regenerates faster than it will in later decades. It’s tempting to squeeze too many activities into your day and neglect your sleep—finally oversleeping when you have the chance.
Over the long term, such an irregular sleeping cycle reduces the quality of your sleep and speeds up the aging process. Make a habit of keeping a regular bedtime; stick to your evening and morning routines as often as you can.

6. Spend your money wisely.

“Try to save something while your salary is small; it’s impossible to save after you begin to earn more.“ – Jack Benny

On a crazy party night, it’s easy to spend too much on alcohol, greasy food, drugs, and late-night taxies. Do you really want to burn your money on these unnecessary and toxic things? Your money is your time – your precious life. You’ve traded your efforts for these dollars; think carefully before throwing them away.
Save and invest your money. The earlier you start saving, the more time your money has to accrue interest.

7. Accept your imperfections.

“Be gentle with yourself. You’re doing the best you can.“ – Unknown

No matter how much you try, you will never be perfect. “Perfect” doesn’t exist. Researchers have shown that accepting venerabilities is the key to inner happiness. Don’t dwell on your past mistakes; learn from them and move ahead.
Don’t be unnecessary harsh on yourself; instead, use your energy to avoid repeating these mistakes in the future.

8. Stop comparing yourself to others.

“True happiness is when you are living your life without waiting for anyone’s approval.” – Unknown

The sooner you embrace your uniqueness and the differences between you and others, the happier you will be. Comparing yourself to those around you is pointless because everyone’s life goes at a different pace.

9. Stop trying to please everyone.

 “Focus on loving yourself instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.” – Unknown

Society has conditioned us to habitually try to please everyone around us. We want to fulfil our parents’ expectations, impress our schoolteachers, be accepted by our peers, and be liked at work. However, It’s not healthy to care so much about what others think.
Learn to surround yourself with people who accept you and like you for who you are. You don’t have time for people who try to change you or re-frame you. Invest your time and energy wisely in a good group of friends!

10. Learn to be happy.

“Happiness is not having what you want. It is appreciating what you have.” – Unknown

Happiness is a choice you make everyday. It’s the habit of maintaining a positive attitude towards the reality around you. Learn to appreciate what you have and always look at the positive side of things.
  Research suggests that appreciating what you have can increase happiness and decrease negative feelings.
Don’t postpone your happiness to a moment in the future; life is all about enjoying the journey!